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  1. richief

    richief The Curly Wurly Man In XNXX Heaven

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    Yes, I had to go through counselling first, but I just said I didn't want more kids, the wife was 6 months pregnant at the time and the doctor asked what I would do if something untoward happened, I just said I don't want anymore kids, he signed off and away I went for my vasectomy.
     
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  2. XxxLovedollxxX

    XxxLovedollxxX Amateur

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    Thank you all for your replies,
    I am glad to know that I am not alone, would any of you like to talk in more detail with me?
    I was thinking of waiting until I was 25 (when I finish University) only so that doctors will be more likely to do the operation.

    It has been very helpful hearing the different opinions on here, thank you again.
     
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  3. knoxvillainswife

    knoxvillainswife Porn Star

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    I think it's something that should be fully up to the woman. I'd been told I couldn't have children, and I was actually perfectly alright with it. Everyone felt sorry for me, which I hated, I didn't feel sorry for myself.
    Imagine my surprise when, 9 years later, I turn up pregnant. I love her, I always will, but good bye to free time. I really miss my life before I had her, even though I love her more then life itself.
    Not to mention the sex, no random men in my life at all now, her safety comes before all else.
     
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  4. rowdy3128

    rowdy3128 Porn Star

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    I have 3 step kids who don't do what I ask and think they know it all..........I'm glad there STEP kids....not my kids treating mr like this........
     
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  5. Heyesey

    Heyesey Porn Star

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    How about waiting until you actually do know whether or not you never want kids? I'm 43 and I still cannot say for certain that I won't end up regretting never having any. All I can say for sure is, I haven't wanted any yet.
     
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  6. plushemma

    plushemma Sex Lover

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    I agree you should be able to make your own choices when it comes to children, I have also thought about this so that I could have all my fun and never worry about having children.
     
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  7. Suze3221

    Suze3221 Her Crankiness

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    I've never wanted children and at the grand old age of 41 I'm so pleased I haven't had any. Life really does begin at 40 - my money is my own and I can go places wherever and whenever I want. I get the usual sympathetic looks but it doesn't bother me. Why should it? I'd never be in the position I'm in with children.
     
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  8. shyguyy2

    shyguyy2 Porn Star Suspended!

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    I date alot of Slavic women and for some reason they all seem to want big familys so either way I look at it I'm ending up with at least 1 kid. I won't mind because all I really want in the long run is to have a happy wife.
     
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  9. izinami

    izinami Amateur

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    Don't think I'll ever end up having kids, but that's more due to being bitter, alone, and miserable for the rest of my life.
     
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  10. N.E. Woman

    N.E. Woman More Spicy than Sweet

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    This is a beautiful sentiment. Good for you.
     
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  11. shyguyy2

    shyguyy2 Porn Star Suspended!

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    Thank You.
     
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  12. Rixer

    Rixer Horndog

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    My kids are grown and gone. They better not come back either! we've done our time....paid our debt....

    It's nice to be able to watch porn and smoke weed without the kids telling you not to.:excited:
     
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  13. izinami

    izinami Amateur

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    I know that I can't hope to have that long term goal, but best of luck to you.
     
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  14. shyguyy2

    shyguyy2 Porn Star Suspended!

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    Uness you've given up thats bullshit. It's never too late, when things look tough hold your head a little higher and push through it. But if you mind is set so be it, and thank you.
     
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  15. izinami

    izinami Amateur

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    I have given up.
     
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  16. shyguyy2

    shyguyy2 Porn Star Suspended!

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    :(Thats too bad. My dad used to say when thigs look bad and theres no way out you just have to fix a bayonet and fight on. Wise advise from a man who seen some of the biggest battles of the Vietnam war.
     
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  17. N.E. Woman

    N.E. Woman More Spicy than Sweet

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    You're only 20 years old..... You shouldn't have the mindset of giving up. From my age and perspective.... You are just a baby.

    Change your attitude and outlook, there is nothing more attractive, in either sex, then a positive disposition.
     
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  18. shyguyy2

    shyguyy2 Porn Star Suspended!

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    If your only 20 you need to shape up and change your addittude! When I was your age I had already been at war for 2 years if I can make it through heart break,2 wars and loosing the only family I had I think you can change your addittude and look at life a little better.
     
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  19. izinami

    izinami Amateur

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    21 now. I'm an infinite pessimist. Been that way for 14 years and it's not likely to change.
     
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  20. izinami

    izinami Amateur

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    I don't change unless it's forced upon me. So unless i'm literally dragged out of the house, I won't change.
     
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